Category: Human Nature

Language Matters

As a person who does love using the F word when passionately explaining something or during exuberant dialogue and exciting times… I do say it… Frequently but not often. That’s a thing. I’m seeing how much saying fuck is blatantly accepted when at times it’s terribly inappropriate and actually feels hurtful. Just me? Mind you

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Your Dark Night

in your dark night of the soul, in your torment and pain, I long to sit beside you and let nothing change. to be with you, as you are, as you need to be, no desire to take you out of that world, be who you are, it’s what needs to be, you being you

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A Flashlight Through The Bullshit

I wrote this back in March of 2016 and a dear friend created/painted the accompanying picture based on the words and feeling I was expressing. He’s the Artista. He also knew where I was coming from. Today similar feelings are stirred and I feel… raw, vulnerable and completely letting go of control. I don’t like control… it screams of lack. I don’t like drama. I really just want to love life. This painting got hung up again today. Vulnerability hurts so much more than control… but that’s where Love exists. … and I love.

Do you feel needy and high-maintenance in love? Read on to see how your vulnerability might just be what they adore. 

Thinking you’re too high maintenance and making yourself stressed over what your partner thinks about you and your needs is a sure fire way to eat you alive. It’s also a sure-fire way to make them feel they are responsible for your happiness… they are not. No one is but you.  If they feel constantly

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5 Ways I’m Navigating Total Heartbreak and Why I’ll Never Give Up On Love, even when it kills us. 

As I’m wrestling with relationship turmoil… aka confusion and heart-sickness, I received this Elephant Journal blog in my Email  https://www.elephantjournal.com/2017/06/are-your-insecurities-screwing-up-your-relationship/  In life and love we all have insecurities. It’s part of being human.  I have taken a big chance on love and something I was so sure of on Thursday has left me feeling sick

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